Therapeutic Services
Your supervised visitation booklet
Everything you need to feel prepared and confident for your visits — the ground rules, what to bring, how often you can visit, and ideas to make your time together meaningful.
The ground rules
Rules that keep everyone safe
These simple expectations protect your child and keep the focus where it belongs — on your time together.
Arrive on time and check in with staff before your visit begins.
Keep conversation positive — no discussion of the court case, the other parent, or adult matters.
Do not make promises about the future or when the child will come home.
No photos, video, or recording without prior written approval.
Phones are put away so your attention stays on your child.
Follow the monitor's guidance; they are here to keep everyone safe.
No discipline, physical or otherwise — redirect gently and let staff assist.
Say goodbye warmly and leave first so your child departs with the custodial parent calmly.
Before you arrive
What to bring
Arrive a few minutes early so check-in doesn’t cut into your visit. Bring what helps your child feel comfortable — and leave the rest at home.
A favorite snack or drink for your child
A small toy, book, or game
A simple activity or craft to share
A change of clothes for little ones
Your ID for check-in
A calm, patient attitude
Recommendations
Age-appropriate visiting schedules
General guidance only — your court order and your child’s needs always come first.
Infants (0–2)
Shorter, frequent visits Brief, gentle visits help build familiarity without overwhelming your baby.
Toddlers (3–5)
1–2 hours, 1–2× / week Play-based time keeps young children engaged and comfortable.
School age (6–11)
2 hours, 1–2× / week Games, crafts, and conversation support connection at this age.
Teens (12+)
Flexible, teen-led Follow your teen's lead; shared interests make visits meaningful.
Making it meaningful
Activities to enjoy together
Connection, not perfection. Simple, shared moments matter most.
Play air hockey or a game
Make bead jewelry
Build with Legos
Make a family hand-print banner
Read a book together
Color and draw
Fold origami
Make a magazine collage
Make cards for relatives
Build a train track
Tell each other jokes
Play a board game
It's normal to feel nervous
Visiting with a monitor present can feel strange at first — most parents and children settle in quickly. Focus on your child, follow your heart, and let our team handle the rest. We're here to help.
Questions before your visit?
Our team is happy to walk you through anything in this booklet. Reach out anytime.